... and then you can post your frustrations here! This post is for you to comment if you are frustrated and need to "talk" about it with us!! But remember to pray about it first!! AND this is not a place to vent about your hubby. Even though you fell he is the reason for your frustrations. I know I fell better if I talk about the situation that happened and it makes me realize how I could have handled it better. Type away dear friends.
~and just to be clear this is for non-dare frustrations/situations
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I normally always think through stuff before I ask/tell Chad something because he is very analytical and takes me at my word.
ReplyDeleteSooooooo today I told him I needed to be dropped off in between 8-8:30am to get a ride for the retreat. I figured he would not want me to leave his car in a random parking lot. He came back at me kind of rude and selfish and it was hard to not snap back at him. So I calmly told him, "I have already thought through this and figured you would want to drop me off rather than your car being in a parking lot"
He came back a little nicer and said "well I assumed yall were meeting at LP church and I am fine with my car being there." After that we worked it out.
SOOOO, my point is I was extremely frustrated but I stayed calm and did not get angry (like I normally would have) and it brought him back down to a nicer level and we had a conversation instead of a "fight". BUT I was very upset because of the selfish things he said when I felt like I was doing him a favor. And at the end I realized he was not being selfish, it was s/t I had not thought about for his sake.
It is so hard sometimes to talk to Chad about anything because he always tends to see the negative side before he sees the positive. It can be very draining especially when you are trying to show love. I know he sees me as a safe place and that may be why I get to hear all the negatives, but I can only handle so much! I need lots of grace LORD!
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